Coping with Prostate Cancer - Coping with Prostate Cancer

Coping With Prostate Cancer
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Having received a diagnosis of prostate cancer, many men experience a multitude of emotions such as fear and anger. In addition, many men may have questions and want to know what and if they can do anything to take an active role in their care. To that end, there is a great deal you can do to become a more active participant in making decisions about your care. For example, you can:
Learn about the disease–educational materials are widely available on the Internet as well as through your health care provider
Find out about currently available treatment options and speak with your doctor about which ones may be appropriate for you
Have conversations with your doctor and nurses—you should be comfortable asking questions and seeking a second opinion
Join a support group—gain information and resources by talking to others
How am I expected to feel?
Learning that you or a loved one has prostate cancer may bring up a lot of feelings that you may find hard to deal with. It’s only natural to be concerned about treatment, side effects, the future, and how the illness will affect you and your loved ones. Take advantage of all the help you can find, especially from your health care team. Tell them how you are feeling and what you need.
What's the best way to cope with my diagnosis?
Become a partner with your health care team (your urologist, radiation oncologist, medical oncologist, nurse, technician, counselor). Ask questions about your condition, the risks, benefits, and side effects of each treatment option, and the impact your choice will have on your life. It’s a good idea to write down all your questions and answers so you can refer to the information at any time. Once you have decided on a treatment option, follow your health care team’s advice and let them know about any new symptoms or other concerns.
How will prostate cancer affect my relationships?
Talk about your illness with your family and close friends. Some people may shy away at first because they want to help you but don't know how. Being open about what you need can help you maintain relationships that will support you.
How much should I tell my partner?
You can benefit by involving your partner in helping you cope with and manage your illness; for example, your partner can participate in doctor visits and help you review treatment options. The more your partner understands and shares in your care, the more your partner can provide support to you.
You may want to talk to a professional counselor regarding concerns you may have regarding intimacy with your partner. Your health care team can help you find a counselor. Many prostate cancer support groups are also available for you and your partner.